I think there was wine involved here…
Let me first introduce myself properly. My name is Leah, I am Canadian, fifty-one (Yay, I made it this far!) years old and married to an Italian.
The relationship…
We met in 2002 on a cruise ship. He was a Navigational Officer and I, a midnight lounge singer. Sounds corny, I know, but I swear all true! He would sit in his navy blue uniform with gold stripes in the dark corners of the bar drinking alone. I thought nothing of it until he asked me for a date in Cozumel, Mexico. And, as they say the rest is history.
Home is where the heart is…
After several years of on again – off again romance, vacations and contracts on ships we finally got married in the summer of 2008 in Canada. And now, I live in Genova, Italy with his mother while he still sails the blue seas across the Atlantic.
What do I do all day?
I’m learning Italian and teach English.. Thrilled to be somewhat independent with my own source of income, the language and cultural curves seem less daunting.
What I love…
I love reading, writing, hiking, nature, travelling, the arts, philosophy, meeting new people and photography. I sing in the shower, make mosaics from broken cups, talk to sheep, and have become a serious Cosplayer @ Lucca Comicon! And, I love and adore my cat almost as much as my husband.
What the heck have I been doing all these years?
When I read the book Eat, Love, Pray, it was like I wrote it myself! After my first marriage failed because of my desperately wanting children I ran away to the Caribbean to make sense of my failed marriage and inexplicable infertility.
The career…
I had a flourishing career as an Advertising Executive in Toronto at a small agency but broken hearted and broken down, I left everything behind to regain my zest for life again.
Singing for my supper…
I’ve been singing since I was 15. A lifelong dream of one day becoming a professional vocalist landed in my lap on a cruise ship in 2002. I look back at this adventure with great fondness as it is what brought me into the arms of my loving Italian husband.
And so this is my story…
You did not! Oh man I just randomly came across this writing italy photography in the wordpress blog search! hahahaha Good one Leah, I’m sure you’ll have a great group of followers 🙂
i was hoping to see pictures in the about me section and not just plums. love, tony
Those are olives my dearest Tony! How’s the funny business these days? For you, I will post a pic. Hugs, L.
Love the site! Living with your Italian Mother in Law. We should have you write something for our blog!
Cheers,
Mike
Hi Mike, thanks for the positive feedback. I have a lot of fun doing this! Would be happy to guest blog on your site…I was a bit curious about the 1000 fights, what does it mean exactly?
nice site, i really enjoyed reading this…
I was jumping from site to site and I found you! Funny how similar our story is… Singer for a cruise ship, met my Italian, now living in Sicily, Italy… We’re in Cogoleto, Genova for a few months, maybe we can catch up one day?
Hi Jill!
It IS a small world! I had to look up Cogoleto, you are on the opposite side of the city centre from me. I am in Quarto Alto, do you know where that is? It’s close to Nervi. How do you like Genova? It’s quite different to Sicily. I spent some time in Palermo and Napoli while on an RCL ship a few years back. Is your husband on board right now or working shore side at the terminal? Mine is in Texas on the Ecstasy : ( I just spent New Year’s with him on the Fas)
We should definitely meet up for coffee soon! Have you got an email I can send you my mobile #?
sicilian_simplicity@yahoo.com
A presto…
I just looked at your photo! Hello?? CCL Celebration 2001…? What a small world…
Oops, I ment 2002-2003…
Are all mother in law bad??
Well I don’t know exactly…my first MIL was great, but she was not Italian! This one well, she has good intentions, and she treats me okay, but being N.American it is hard for me to adjust to such intrusiveness.
I just came across your blog, I am also Canadian, met my boyfriend on cruise ships where we work together, he thinks I should make the move to Italy, and one of his arguments is he has is own house away from his mother. I didn’t realize how important this is until I read your blog.
Thanks
Lynn,
The important question to ask your boyfriend is how far away does his mom live from his house and does she have a key? I know lots of guys that live in their own house/apartment and then you also find out that their mom lives in the house next door or apt above! My husband’s 45 year old friend lives in the apt below…we visited him once and I was amazed at how clean it was for a “bachelor pad”. My husband laughed and said his mom lives upstairs and has a key…who do you think cleans it Pierluigi? Good Luck!
hahaha, thanks for the advice. I know his mom lives about 5 mins away as does his brother and sister-in-law. Don’t know if mom has a key. I do know his brother has a key to water the lemon trees (well the sister-in-law does it). Thanks for the advice. I have really enjoyed readying your blog. Can’t wait to hear more about your adventures.
Dear Leah,
Great to know there’s someone else out there who married a man from foreign parts and lives with her mother-in-law. Am doing the same in Greece and your bright outlook is inspiring for me. Thanks for sharing your story!
Oh my, a Greek MIL, that would be interesting…can you speak Greek? What part of Greece are you in? I loved it there, I was in Mykonos, Athens and Corfu years ago.
No, my MIL is Italian, I am Greek! Of course I can speak greek, I am a native greek born and raised in Athens!
Your story is fascinating. What an interesting and wonderful life! If mine were to become any more boring I would be in a coma.
Living with a mother in law though. Scary. I wish you well.
Hi Leah,
Glad you liked the article. Sure thing, link away!
I’m enjoying your blog as well.
Cheers,
Natalia
I just found your blog and I like it! I’m an Italian living in Canada and I write about my life here.
Pass by and let me know, I’m sure you will find post you can enjoy!
elenasc.wordpress.com
Hi, thanks so much for sending me your link! I love your blog and your comments about Canada too. The cinnamon thing made me laugh, I love the stuff and put it in my banana bread : ) How very Canadian of me! haha
Keep writing…I always wondered what the perspective was from someone who had immigrated to Canada.
Bacio, Leah
Sorry, I don’t have any photos.
Hi Leah,
I’ve found your blog by chance looking for something else. I am French living in Milan, well … home country is not too far for me 😉 Just split up with my Italian after long nice story, still in touch with nice MIL and decided to stay here because of great friends. Hope life is nice in Genova.
Hi Muriel! Welcome aboard! I can’t believe that you decided to stay in Italy and not go back to France! I love France, but then again I have never lived there. Genova is okay, but it is so full of old people that there is an energy I miss about other cities. It’s very “closed” as they say. But I too have made some beautiful friends here and feel lucky to have them : ) Are you still in Milan? That is not very far from Genova, do you ever come to the sea?
Hi Leah! I am still in Milan, apart from my friends, my job is here 😉 and split-up is recent. I really appreciate living in this city even if it is hectic. I guess it is less “closed” than Genova. Often go to Liguria in spring and summer to escape from the heat of the city (like all milanesi…). Maybe we could meet there and talk about “italianities”? I wanted to send you a private message but couldn’t find the option :> I laughed a lot reading at some of your posts concerning crusches, GP and Italian culture: you’re totally right!!
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Hi George,
Your site sounds interesting. Thank you for taking the time to write to me. Perhaps you can share a bit more about what your forecast is when you plan to go live with your site? My blog is not a travel blog but I do occasionally write about places I’ve been to or experiences I’ve had with the Italian culture. So, I am not entirely sure if it’s a good fit for us to join forces…I would like to see some sample blogs that you are featuring first.
Thanks, best regards, Leah
We went to Genova recently for the first time and loved it. I have recently put up a post about our day in the city.
Someone (can’t remember who!) told me about your blog so I took a peak and laughed myself off my chair. Look forward to reading more. By the way, we’re practically neighbors…M:)
Cool! Thanks Megan and welcome aboard…will check out your blog too.
Cheers! Leah, the friendly Canuk : )
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Ciao Tiara,
I would be happy to have some guest blogging. Have you got something in mind? I have never had a guest blogger before and would want to hear what you had to say first of course but it sounds like it could be a good idea. I have a nice little following but it would be great if I could also increase my hits too 🙂
Let me know, cheers, Leah
I love reading your blog. I have lived in San Terenzo, Lerici, Bogliasco n Genoa for 3 years and completely love your perspective of the place.Rock on
Sahitya, Thank you so much!
🙂
Cheers, Leah
Hi,My name is Angela and I love your blog and have been following your writings from the beginning. You were very brave to have taken the step to move to Itay, from the outside it looks so romantic but never easy. Fun and never boring as you know. We have an apartment in San Remo and I am an expat spouse, 50 years old, a new empty nester with my husband working overseas. I grew up in South Africa, have lived all over the world with my husband and two daughers and am a Sea Captains daughter. I am learning Italian and am going to try and make a life in this part of the world. Good luck with Portofino, as I said, never boring!
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Hello, how I do understand you! I live with my mother in law as well and it is not easy per niente!!!
Ahhh, so nice to know I am not alone 🙂
Thanks for stopping by my blog.
Hello, we do have to stuggle a bit, it is true!! Welcome, do have a look at mine if you feel like it!
Hi Leah! Love your blog! I found your article on the expat-blog.com and would LOVE some advice. I was an au pair this summer in Milano, fell madly in love with Italy and everything about it. Decided to get my TEFL certification to become a teacher while learning Italian, well now I’m at a crossroads…I’m back home in Colorado for Christmas but looking into enrolling in language programs to get a student visa and return *ahem* legally this time. Any advice?? I really want to experience living in Florence, close to my Italian boyfriend as well. Feel free to email me, thanks! 🙂 🙂 🙂 Angie
Hi Angie…thx for stopping by 🙂
I have replied to your private email.
Ciao, Leah
Angie…where did you go…curious minds want to know what happened? Are you back in Italy?
I am super behind in catching up with emails. Drop by and let me know what’s new, hugs, Leah
Why oh why have I never seen your blog before??? I love it! I’m married to a Sicilian-Canadian, just one generation away from being born in Sicily, and we have a house there that we currently use in summers and plan to retire to in a few years. I can so relate to what you write!
Hi Diane, thanks for stopping by 🙂
How did you find me anyway?
Oh, and when you do move here permanently stay away from Fastweb, haha
A presto!
Hi, Leah!
I’ve been following your blog for a while and enjoying it so much that I’ve nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Come check it out.
Shimona
Thanks Shimona!
I will check it out when I am back in the city with a faster connection 🙂
Cheers!
I’ve just come across your page, really like it. will definitely be tuning in for more 🙂
Hi, thanks!
Welcome aboard 🙂
Leah,
YOU, out of everyone in the world, might enjoy my blog the most
http://www.italianidiots.com/
My Italian mother-in-law drives me nuts!!!!!
Hmmmm, will check it out.
Thx for stopping by 🙂
Hey there, I have nominated you for the Liebster award – if you’d prefer not to accept, please don’t worry as it was quite a bit of work! 🙂
Forgot to put the link!
http://barbedwords.wordpress.com/2013/07/31/an-award/
Hi, thanks for the nomination 🙂
Unfortunately, I am “at the cottage” and my Internet connection is super slow…therefore, following all of the instructions to accept the award is not a practical option for me right now.
But thanks for the nice thought, cheers! Leah xox
Yep, the name of your blog really does sum it all up. You have a vibrant, lively spirit about you though and I look forward to reading about your journey here. Keep on going.
Hi Crazy!
Thank you for your comment 🙂
Welcome aboard the Funship Lollipop, hahaha!
Ok so the title of your blog reminds me of my personal saying when people ask if I will ever marry an Italian “I can’t marry an Italian because my cooking will never live up to his mothers!” – what a scary thought! Sounds like you’re managing however…:)
Well not because of my cooking haha!
My husband is not very traditional, lucky for me. I have friends here with husbands who are much younger and they insist on home cooked meals ready at a certain hour. There’s no way I would have ever married a man like that! (Unless he had millions of dollars of course (kidding).
How lucky you are! Does he have any unmarried brothers? Cousins? 😉
Haha, no. I got the last one 🙂 sorry!
Thank you for following my blog! Happy that you like it 🙂 what an interesting blog you have 🙂 for sure will be back here! have a nice day 🙂
I love Siena, looking forward to reading your posts 🙂
Hi Leah, I was looking around through the blogs as part of my 11th assignment on zerotohero challenge and found your blog. I love the title, it is what attracted me here and it made me smile, kind of feeling the title :O) I’m American, I do not live with mother-in-law, thank God :O)) but I chose to live here in Italy for love as well, so I just identified with you.
I’ll be looking around and reading your blog, I’m also going to subscribe…I like your blog! Keep up the great work.
Ciao
Hi! Welcome aboard 🙂
What the heck is zerotohero anyway?
Zero to hero is a challenge taking place on WordPress to get bloggers back on track and why not allow us to learn something new.
Hello Leah, and a belated welcome to Italy! I have been living in Italy since 1989. My father was Italian and so we would spend summer holidays here. I fell in love with the life here in golden times and decided to move as soon as I was able to. I live in the beautiful area of Langhe. Working as a mural artist I am besotted with the marvel of some of the facade decorations that are in your home town of Genova!
Italy is both awe inspiring and frustrating…it’s difficult to say which prevails isn’t it?
I am cat obsessed too!
I look forward to dipping into your blog.
Nadia
Hi Nadia,
Thank you for your comment and welcome aboard!
I imagine you have seen many changes in Italy since 1989! My first trip to Italy was in 1990 when they still used the Lira 🙂
So, what type of cat do you have? How many? 🙂 🙂 🙂
Just wanted to say I live not to far from you and visit your neck of the woods at least once a month !!
Reading your posts rings so true to me on so many levels !!!
Keep up the good work
Cool, thanks. We should meet some time for coffee 🙂
Dear Leah,
My name is Joyce and I work for ExpatFinder.com.
ExpatFinder.com is a free one stop website for people preparing to move or working and living overseas. We provide a myriad of services for expatriates and we have over 2,000 articles to help and support the people moving around the world and we are now creating an interview section to help the expats with real life experiences!
We quite enjoy your blog about living in Italy, it is very interesting and informative. Would it be possible to interview you to further share some of your tips and feature some of your first hand experience as an Expat and your interview will be published on our Expat Interview section as a guide for our expat readers. The questions are mainly about the day to day lifestyle of an expat. If it would be possible, could you also send some photographs that we can use?
Of course, if you accept, we can add a link to your blog or some of your website.
The questions are enclosed, feel free to respond freely. You can return the doc with your answers if you accept this invitation.
Thanks in advance and do let me know if you prefer other means to conduct this interview and we would be happy to accommodate your terms.
Best regards,
Joyce
Dear Joyce, I’d be happy to do an interview with you and answer your questions. Please note that there was no attachment of questions so I am unable to respond accordingly. You are welcome to email them to me at lmarmstrong66@gmail.com.
Best regards, Leah
Hi Joyce,
I replied to your interview questions but never heard anything back…has the interview been published?
Rgds,
Leah
Hi Leah. I found you via the interview on the ex pats site. I think I owe you a box of choccies for the websites you mentioned.
I am now working my way through your brill blog.
All the best Pecora Nera, Mrs Sensible and our assorted scaby cats
🙂 pleasure, I love your blog! (and choccies too)
Funny enough, I was born and raised in Genova, then found a Canadian girl and moved to Toronto (actually Vaughan) in 2009
Ha! Small world isn’t it? I lived in Richmond Hill and Newmarket for a few years. I miss Canada but certainly not the weather! What do you miss most about Genova? 🙂
Miss you raking our leaves
Me too!
Hi Leah,
what an interesting story! And how strange that we have not met before! I am a Genovese doc and my husband is from Michigan. He lived in Genoa with me for the last 18 years (mostly borgoratti, but Nervi as well) and 1 year ago we moved to Michigan. I miss everything about Genova and don’t think I am going to make it for more then 2 years here.
Nice blog btw 🙂
Daniela
Hi Daniela, thanks for reading my blog! Do you ever visit?
Hi Leah!
I love your frankness and romantic story as to how you met your partner and came to Italy.
I left a fabulous job in London to come to the Veneto region in order to be with a man… I walked into a job that wasn’t for me – and needing to regain that zest you mentioned.
Do you travel around the Venetian area much?
Edie
Hi Edie, thanks for your comment. I love Venice, but sadly don’t get out that way much. Do you ever get to the Ligurian coast?